I tried!

I was asked to speak to some people about posting certain photos. I did as asked because I can understand how frustrating it must feel to not be able to post things online like most people can & to have to constantly deactivate/delete accounts to try to shake off unwanted attention from complete strangers.

I have received a lot of negative feedback because of this, not from the people I contacted so much as random people who just feel like they want to have a say. This doesn’t bother me but it does prove that a lot of people really have no understanding of how morally wrong it is to invade the privacy of children because they happen to have a very famous mother.

It gets to them, I feel sympathy, why is that a problem?

Dear, dlmr2012 First of all, the 2 backstage photos that you posted a link to are now gone from my blog. I must have missed them when I deleted the 30 or so other photos last month after being asked to by Lola’s friends. I’d just like to make something clear; this isn’t a game… Saying “i wont post such pics if i dont see anymore personal ones too” just makes it seem like you are more concerned about how popular your blog is than you are about Lola’s feelings about this whole situation. As for the “Sweet Charity” photos; You said that you deleted “some” of the backstage pics, well they are all PRIVATE photos so I don’t quite understand the logic behind that. Also, the photos that you say “people took during show” belong to one of Lola’s friends & I happen to know for a FACT that neither Lola or her friend are happy about anyone who doesn’t know them posting them online. I know this because I have spoken to the person who took the photos. This is why I asked you to delete them! In regards to the last part of your message “and i know u say some of those pics are now like everywhere but frankly havent seen some them so far any where else!!” —- I have no idea what you are referring to or what you mean. I am not trying to get into an argument with you, I am just trying to make you understand that this stuff actually upsets the people involved & they have contacted many people to try to put a stop to it. But just as everyone else seemed to stop, you seemed to have the same kind of stuff on your blog. So, finally. I will ask you again to PLEASE DELETE the private photos of Lola (whether her friends are in them or not) that you have posted, out of respect for her. This is a perfect example of the invasion of privacy that annoys Lola: http://dlmr2012.tumblr.com/post/41377273702/new-profile-pic-anyone-know-where-this-is-i —- You know where it came from & if she wanted it to be made so publicly available, it would be easy for everyone else to find the source. I understand that you are a fan & you like to see new photos, I feel the same way. But I just think it is better to keep them to yourself as Lola clearly doesn’t like them being re-posted around the web.
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Dear, dlmr2012

First of all, the 2 backstage photos that you posted a link to are now gone from my blog. I must have missed them when I deleted the 30 or so other photos last month after being asked to by Lola’s friends.

I’d just like to make something clear; this isn’t a game… Saying “i wont post such pics if i dont see anymore personal ones too” just makes it seem like you are more concerned about how popular your blog is than you are about Lola’s feelings about this whole situation.

As for the “Sweet Charity” photos; You said that you deleted “some” of the backstage pics, well they are all PRIVATE photos so I don’t quite understand the logic behind that. Also, the photos that you say “people took during show” belong to one of Lola’s friends & I happen to know for a FACT that neither Lola or her friend are happy about anyone who doesn’t know them posting them online. I know this because I have spoken to the person who took the photos. This is why I asked you to delete them!

In regards to the last part of your message “and i know u say some of those pics are now like everywhere but frankly havent seen some them so far any where else!!” —- I have no idea what you are referring to or what you mean.

I am not trying to get into an argument with you, I am just trying to make you understand that this stuff actually upsets the people involved & they have contacted many people to try to put a stop to it. But just as everyone else seemed to stop, you seemed to have the same kind of stuff on your blog.

So, finally. I will ask you again to PLEASE DELETE the private photos of Lola (whether her friends are in them or not) that you have posted, out of respect for her.

This is a perfect example of the invasion of privacy that annoys Lola: http://dlmr2012.tumblr.com/post/41377273702/new-profile-pic-anyone-know-where-this-is-i —- You know where it came from & if she wanted it to be made so publicly available, it would be easy for everyone else to find the source.

I understand that you are a fan & you like to see new photos, I feel the same way. But I just think it is better to keep them to yourself as Lola clearly doesn’t like them being re-posted around the web.

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